Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set of glands calling to another. Love is a friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows-one day at a time. Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but genuinely unhappy. There are nangging, doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. They might spoil the dream...
Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It give strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warm by her presenco, even when she is way. Miles do not separate you. You want her nearer. But near or far, she is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away, I can't risk loosing her."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. She is yours. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure it will end in intimacy. Love is the maturation of friendhsip. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks of confidence. When she is way, you wonder if she ischeating. Sometimes you even check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. She feels that trust, and it makes her even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you'll regret later, but love never will.
Love is an upper. It makes you look up. It make you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before.
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